so i’ve got this dilemma.
there’s this gurl that i dig. and she digs me back. we’ve been planning on hooking it up for real very soon. she lives about an hour and a half away from me.
and she’s got this contest with her friend to see how many guys they can make out with over the summer. she claims it was just a joke, but she’s obviously mistaking me for an idiot.
and just the other day, she made a post (which is now locked away) where she comes right out and says that she left her thong over at this guy’s place… some guy that she makes out with now and then. he’s got a girlfriend. so, y’know, that’s real nice.
and we’ve been doing this dance, where i’ll draw back a bit, and she’ll draw back a bit; then we both just get upset or offended. and now things are a bit up in the air i guess.
the thing is, i don’t know if i should trust her. (note: i am firmly monogamous… i tried being in a poly relationship once, and it went over like a lead balloon.)
i mean, i could give her the benefit of the doubt, and just assume that when and if we do actually hook up, she’ll chill on gettin’ it on with other people.
…and i could get seriously burned.
or, i could just throw in and walk away.
…and i could miss out on something good. not to mention, some obviously hot sex (yes i likes me some sex, so sue me).
so, i don’t know what to do! we haven’t even met yet! so i kinda feel like i should wait and see… and yet i feel like i’d be an idiot to even give it a real shot.
